How Do You Define Successful Parenting For Your Kids

Published: 04th April 2011
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“Why is it that my niece Rhoda is such a wonderful kid, but the moment the neighbor’s daughter visits’ her, both of them turn into little monsters? I wondered to myself as I watched them both play. The sofa gets ripped apart and the sponge falls out, toys break and I can’t describe it but its more like a mini whirlwind that hits the house when these kids get together. And what’s worse is Rhoda starts talking back with her mother using foul language. I can’t understand how my cousin sister, Rhoda’s mother can take this Jekyll and Hyde like behavior from her daughter and what’s more- have the patience to put up with it. Kids can be so annoying but parents will always be parents irrespective of the kind of monsters that they turn into.



There are a few children that get influenced with peer pressure but that’s exactly what good parenting warns parents about. Bhavna, the owner of Indian Parenting-tips.com says “almost everything a child learns in the first few years of its life is from their parents". "The biggest problem is a lack of discipline, and spot correction. The child tends to think he or she can get away with anything."If parents followed the tips given below, it could have an immediate impact on the behavior of the child.



1. Teach your child a set acceptable social behavior and ensure the child doesn’t succumb to peer pressure in terms of behaving in a social setting.



2. Understand that your child has certain strong likes and dislikes so ask them for a view point even when it comes to adult problems. You will be surprised that when they give you solutions it will be simple and honest.



3. Avoid blaming a child for anything or shouting violently at the child. On the contrary, sit down and explain politely to a child the bad behavior.



4. Don’t laugh with your child while you discipline them. They will never take it seriously and grow up to be confused with right and wrong.



5. Children come up with a lot of tall stories and complaints. That’s the time they actually want you to listen to them. Listening to them makes them feel heard.



6. Watch cartoons with them, play with them, read to them and spend some time in their little world.



7. Do not interfere when your child is punched blue in the face in a fight. On the contrary, teach the child to apologies and patch up.



Successful parenting is not easy, but it is not very difficult either, all it needs is a bit of patience, and an interest to know what your child is going through. In short it means becoming a child once again. OSA is a portal that caters to parents and helps makes school admissions a delightful experience. It also writes blogs on successful parenting. Incase you are on the lookout for a good play school, and don’t know where to begin, relax! OSA does everything for you right from filling up your form, submitting them online and scheduling a date for your child’s interview.



The writer of this article is a school adviser in Online School Admissions and providing free of cost consultancy to parents and schools for fast and easy online school admissions. Parents can look for schools directory list on the site from where they can search for nursery or

play school in India in which he thinks he can admit his child out of the numerous play schools and nursery schools India. They can also search for the top 10 schools in India as per their choice and can fill school admission forms online.

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